Today makes a year and a half since the day Nick woke up in his new bed in America after joining our family! He has come a long way, baby! And I don't just mean the 6,000 miles - ha!
Nick has learned a lot about family and the love of Christ. He asks kids (and adults) who will engage in conversation with him whether they are Christians (examples: the carpenter working in my laundry room and his guitar teacher). Then he asks whether they go to church - lol! He has learned that our family will never abandon him, which gives him a great source of comfort. Although, he has asked me who would take him if David and I die and he's still a kid. He knows that parents who love their children will discipline them when needed. When a kid at school is a troublemaker or a bully, he always says, "Probly his mom and dad don't care about him." WOW.
However much my son can manage to get on my nerves -- and I DO let him know ;) -- he remains a precious child of God. He has hopes, dreams, and aspirations just like any other kid. He is a good kid -- a good little person.
Here are the before/after photos of my handsome son, Nick. The first is from when I first arrived at the orphanage in Ukraine for the adoption, January 2010. The second is from the end of this summer, July 2011, at the host kids' farewell party.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Monday, August 1, 2011
Summertime Blues
This is Nick's last week out of school. It may just keep him alive - lol! He is having a little problem with attitude and a smart mouth -- he argues and talks back to us. At the farewell party, he was misbehaving. When I corrected him, he argued with me that Tyler started it. I told him to get out of the pool for a time out. He muttered under his breath, and jerked his head around, showing his attitude all the way to the chair. When I walked over to him to correct THAT behavior, he said something else smart-alecky. I told him very calmly that he would now be grounded for a week. He decided to carry that a little further with turning away and saying flatly, "Who cares??" I just couldn't let that one go. I quietly told him to dry off and come inside for his spanking. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!! I followed through with the punishment, then told him to calm down before going back outside to play. Well, I "ungrounded" him yesterday because I just hated for him to be grounded this last week before school starts. I am trying my best to exercise mercy, kindness, and gentleness with this child. He is a sweet boy. He is a good boy. But, boy, is he ever aggravating! ha! I need prayers for patience with him, because I just suspect that as he becomes a teenager, this stuff won't get any easier with him. He continues to talk to me, however, about how much he appreciates being in America and having the opportunity to have a family that loves him and takes care of him.
We will be going to visit the fam later this week. David has a meeting in Jackson on Thursday, so we'll drive up there Wednesday evening and stay the night, then head over to Tyler after the meeting.
Nick and Tyler have been playing outside for hours today! Love it! They just came in about 20 minutes ago after running around with their bb guns for a few minutes, after having killed a snake (killed one Sunday at the restaurant after church, too). It looked like a very young water moccasin, all stripey and dark colored, but Nick had already beheaded it, so I didn't get a look at that. I think they tried to feed it to a spider. They've been all about spiders and snakes the last several days! ewwwwwwwwww! These boys...
Tyler wanted a luau for his big #10 birthday party, so that was a lot of fun. Teri came early, then Donald, Mama, and Becca (and Rachel) came late the next day. The birthday is July 16, and this year happened to fall on a Saturday, so it worked out just right for him. We smoked a pig, laid out the leis, and passed a good time at the cochon de lait!!!!
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
HOT days!
It was 103 today, and the boys were at soccer camp all day! yikes - how do kids do that?? They had a lot of fun. Nick has a friend there from his soccer team, and another from school; Tyler has a friend from school, and several from both his soccer and baseball teams; so, they're happy. I mowed the lawn, then jumped in the pool for a few minutes to cool off - aaaaahhhhhh - felt good. I had lumbar epidural injections on Thursday for sciatica (grrrrrr), and Tyler had his procedure to open his blocked salivary gland the Thursday prior to that. Doc thinks he'll outgrow it.
The Ukrainian host kids are here for a few more weeks! We hosted the welcome party at our house last weekend (we had about 50 people, I think). Tyler's birthday party is Saturday - he wanted a luau. Then, we are supposed to host the farewell party for the host kids two weeks after. Meantime, the workers showed up last week to redo my laundry/mud room. Soooo, the house is torn apart! My washer/dryer are rigged up in the carport, and we look like some really trashy people over here - lol.
Nick's friend from the orphanage is being hosted by our friends. Here is Dima (Dmitry) with our local friends
The Ukrainian host kids are here for a few more weeks! We hosted the welcome party at our house last weekend (we had about 50 people, I think). Tyler's birthday party is Saturday - he wanted a luau. Then, we are supposed to host the farewell party for the host kids two weeks after. Meantime, the workers showed up last week to redo my laundry/mud room. Soooo, the house is torn apart! My washer/dryer are rigged up in the carport, and we look like some really trashy people over here - lol.
Nick's friend from the orphanage is being hosted by our friends. Here is Dima (Dmitry) with our local friends
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
Summer is Here
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And boy, is it hot! We're eagerly anticipating the arrival of the summer host kids from NHFC. Just one more week until they get here. Thankfully, there are six kids from Ukraine coming to this area, and they are able this time to fly into New Orleans, instead of having to be picked up in Atlanta or Houston. I will be the "airport coordinator," and will be gathering the things that NHFC needs to have done. I hope everyone has a great hosting experience. It's NHFC's biggest hosting, yet: 202 kids from Latvia and Ukraine this summer - wow!!!!Nick and Tyler both made it onto competitive soccer teams for this fall, and they are both pretty excited about that. I'm not personally looking forward to it -- can you spell S-T-R-E-S-S?? They'll be playing out of two different clubs, too, so it makes it just that much more run-around. And as much as I love baseball, I am so glad the season's over -- it was more stressful than fun this year. Maybe it wasn't much fun because David stresses over it so much. (I think he thinks our kids should always get top billing, whether or not they are the best player for a position.)
I remembered another reason for my failure to blog a lot this spring: did I mention that David had a heart attack March 6? Mardi Gras weekend, on Sunday morning, he did 30 minutes on the elliptical, took his shower, got dressed, then started to fix breakfast as usual. Suddenly, while standing at the stove, he started having all the classic heart attack signs: dizzy, pain in his chest and left arm, radiating into his hand. He took an aspirin, sat in the recliner, then decided to come find me (in the bathroom getting ready for church), so he sat in the recliner in the bedroom and said he didn't feel "right." He told me all the symptoms he was having, and I asked him what he wanted me to do. He said, "I guess you should call the hospital." Well, I called 911 and had an ambulance come get him. The paramedics said that he was having a heart attack, so I sent the boys to the neighbors' house, and followed David to the hospital.
It didn't take long before the angiogram showed 5 blockages, including one that was 90-95% (in his "widowmaker"). They put in three stents, and ignored the two 40% blockages because they weren't involved in the attack. He came home from the hospital that following night (Monday). He's been fine ever since, but sure does take a lot of medication, now.
David is not overweight, has perfect cholesterol, low-normal blood pressure, and does a cardio workout every day. He has no family history except one uncle who had a heart attack in his 40's. Six months earlier he had gone to the doctor saying he had occasional pain in his chest, jaw pain, and felt lightheaded fairly often. The doc told him it sounded like he was having a heart attack, but that only an angio could tell for sure whether he had a blockage. Because he is otherwise so healthy, he passed on doing the angiogram. It probably would have detected his problem and prevented the attack.
What we did right: called 911 instead of trying to drive to the hospital (what if I were driving and his heart had stopped? I couldn't give compressions or help him quickly in that case); he took an aspirin (although he should have let it melt sublingually instead of swallowing it whole); he didn't delay in letting me know he was having a problem (he suffered NO heart damage because the attack was addressed quickly); he didn't deny that he could be having a heart attack; he exercises and eats right (we were told that his lifestyle probably kept this from happening to him in his 40's - he's 62).
What we did wrong: skipped on the angiogram 6 months ago.
I put Nick into summer school at Tyler's school for this week and next. He is just sooooo far behind where he needs to be. He needs a LOT of remediation to be able to do on-level school work. Nick was terribly nervous about taking classes at this school, and I tried to reassure him, but he was convinced other kids would make fun of him. We walked into the classroom, and there was only 1 other boy in there! woohoo! He was truly relieved. We've done some work at home this summer, too, but the offer to put him in real school was just what I needed. We'll continue to do some stuff at home, but I want him to also have just a little fun this summer.
Friday, June 3, 2011
It's been MONTHS...
...since I've posted to the blog! Wow, how time really does fly! Since February, we've had our first Gotcha Day celebration, been through another soccer season, and we're almost finished with another baseball season. Nick has come soooooo far! He was given the Most Improved Student award by his teacher at the end of the school year! Yahoo! He did work hard, albeit with quite a bit of arm-twisting and a ban on weekday sports by Mom. I'm the meanest mom in the world, you know... I am tough on the boys, but I just have such high expectations of them. We finally were able to get a clinicial diagnosis of ADHD for Nick, and we now have his medication working pretty well. This child who could not add and subtract 2-digit numbers a year ago ended the year doing on-level (5th grade) math. As I type this, he is on the iPad looking up how to build a remote-control airplane.
Tyler also did well in school this year, taking exams for the first time. His lowest exam grade for the last 9 weeks of school was a 91, so his studying really paid off! Now that soccer is over, and baseball is finishing up next week, he can go back to tennis (which is a true love for him).
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Camping trip over Spring Break. David's telling the boys a "scary" story.
PALS!
Tyler also did well in school this year, taking exams for the first time. His lowest exam grade for the last 9 weeks of school was a 91, so his studying really paid off! Now that soccer is over, and baseball is finishing up next week, he can go back to tennis (which is a true love for him).
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Camping trip over Spring Break. David's telling the boys a "scary" story.
PALS!
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
We had a 3rd S.A.T. meeting at Nick's school today. It was a pretty good meeting. Everyone's still convinced that he is a very smart boy, full of mischief, yet sweet, and sometimes (particularly in ESL) lazy. He continues to try and get away with as little work as possible, gets out of his seat constantly, and minds other people's business a LOT. His reading capability has come really far, really fast! He has started taking AR tests, and has passed all of them, so far.
Tyler is gearing up for his first set of real "exams" at school next week. Hope he does well!
Tyler and I went to Tyler for Lane's first birthday party this weekend -- really cute. Julie made him an amazing rocking-horse cake. I'll post pics when I get them onto the computer. Lane is definitely a combo-kid: looks just like both parents. Good genes, though, so it's no wonder he's so handsome! Randi and Zack went up for the party, too, but had to leave early to go do school stuff. :o(
The New Horizons group is back from their interview trip, and will be putting up the photolisting for summer hosting very soon! I just LOVE looking at those pics and reading about all the kids! I like to pick out a few each week to pray for specifically during the waiting period. Russia has shut down hosting programs for now! (adoption still allowed, but not hosting) So sad!
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My sweet grandson, Lane, after his birthday party. February 2011.
Nick's 1st Gotcha Day
Nick's Gotcha Day Party
Tyler is gearing up for his first set of real "exams" at school next week. Hope he does well!
Tyler and I went to Tyler for Lane's first birthday party this weekend -- really cute. Julie made him an amazing rocking-horse cake. I'll post pics when I get them onto the computer. Lane is definitely a combo-kid: looks just like both parents. Good genes, though, so it's no wonder he's so handsome! Randi and Zack went up for the party, too, but had to leave early to go do school stuff. :o(
The New Horizons group is back from their interview trip, and will be putting up the photolisting for summer hosting very soon! I just LOVE looking at those pics and reading about all the kids! I like to pick out a few each week to pray for specifically during the waiting period. Russia has shut down hosting programs for now! (adoption still allowed, but not hosting) So sad!
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My sweet grandson, Lane, after his birthday party. February 2011.
Nick's 1st Gotcha Day
Nick's Gotcha Day Party
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Bringing the Blog to Current
A lot has happened since last entry, but nothing too exciting other than CHRISTMAS! Nick was of course thrilled about EVERYTHING. I then had to drop the bomb that he can't expect other Christmases to be exactly like THIS one was - ha! He understood completely, though. When I told him next Christmas wouldn't be this big, he thought for a minute and said, "Ohhhh, because it was my first Rizma Christmas?" I told him, yes, and he added, "And my first Happy Birthday, and my first Halloween, and my first Thanksgiving?" Yes, son, I'm afraid so...
While out driving around looking at Christmas lights, Nick kept saying, "I can't wait for it Rizma Christmas!" and "It's my first Rizma Christmas!" Tyler was truly annoyed at "Rizma Christmas" because none of us knew what in the world it was supposed to mean! We asked him over and over, and he kept saying, "I not say Rizma Christmas, I say 'Rizma Christmas'!" Finally, in exasperation he huffed and said, "'Ho-ho-ho, RIZMA CHRISTMAS!'" We all laughed and said, "OHHH - RIZMA Christmas! We thought you were saying RIZMA Christmas! NOW we understand." lol
Lane came to see his Nana for a week over New Year's! Oh, and my girls were both down for a week over New Year's, too! ha! How cool is that?!!! They are both doing great. We hosted our New Year's blast with our family/friends, and just had a wonderful time and visit with everyone. I love and miss my family so much! Julie's getting Lane's birthday party in order, and I can't wait for it (and to see everybody) - it's next weekend - wow! Lane's already going to be a year old!
The school has gotten Nick another tutor who fills in the 2 days a week that he didn't have one. His school day is now like this: ESL for 2 hours in the mornings; computer class; reading/social studies; math/science. He is pulled out of social studies or science/math for one hour a day with a tutor. They help him with reading and spelling, and occasionally science. Frankly, I think he should just automatically skip social studies every day and learn the 3R's, but that's just me. The school is soooo concerned with test scores that they think it's time for him to start learning social studies. Oh, yeah -- like he will do anything on a standardized test in SS! They actually sent home a study guide for him a couple of weeks ago and thought he should learn some of the terminology. I circled in red all the words he didn't know, yet, and they got the idea. I just don't have any more time at home to spend with him than I already do! He is up late (after 8) every night just trying to keep up with math, science, and reading. He has far too much remediation to do for them to start dumping more subjects on him to do at home just to try and improve the school's test scores. I've already taken him out of weekday tennis and soccer -- he just doesn't have time for them.
Tyler's out of school this week with a stomach virus. :o( Every time he eats, his stomach starts cramping, and you can guess the rest. I've gotten very little accomplished this week with him home with me...
My amazing and beautiful grandson, Lane!
While out driving around looking at Christmas lights, Nick kept saying, "I can't wait for it Rizma Christmas!" and "It's my first Rizma Christmas!" Tyler was truly annoyed at "Rizma Christmas" because none of us knew what in the world it was supposed to mean! We asked him over and over, and he kept saying, "I not say Rizma Christmas, I say 'Rizma Christmas'!" Finally, in exasperation he huffed and said, "'Ho-ho-ho, RIZMA CHRISTMAS!'" We all laughed and said, "OHHH - RIZMA Christmas! We thought you were saying RIZMA Christmas! NOW we understand." lol
Lane came to see his Nana for a week over New Year's! Oh, and my girls were both down for a week over New Year's, too! ha! How cool is that?!!! They are both doing great. We hosted our New Year's blast with our family/friends, and just had a wonderful time and visit with everyone. I love and miss my family so much! Julie's getting Lane's birthday party in order, and I can't wait for it (and to see everybody) - it's next weekend - wow! Lane's already going to be a year old!
The school has gotten Nick another tutor who fills in the 2 days a week that he didn't have one. His school day is now like this: ESL for 2 hours in the mornings; computer class; reading/social studies; math/science. He is pulled out of social studies or science/math for one hour a day with a tutor. They help him with reading and spelling, and occasionally science. Frankly, I think he should just automatically skip social studies every day and learn the 3R's, but that's just me. The school is soooo concerned with test scores that they think it's time for him to start learning social studies. Oh, yeah -- like he will do anything on a standardized test in SS! They actually sent home a study guide for him a couple of weeks ago and thought he should learn some of the terminology. I circled in red all the words he didn't know, yet, and they got the idea. I just don't have any more time at home to spend with him than I already do! He is up late (after 8) every night just trying to keep up with math, science, and reading. He has far too much remediation to do for them to start dumping more subjects on him to do at home just to try and improve the school's test scores. I've already taken him out of weekday tennis and soccer -- he just doesn't have time for them.
Tyler's out of school this week with a stomach virus. :o( Every time he eats, his stomach starts cramping, and you can guess the rest. I've gotten very little accomplished this week with him home with me...
My amazing and beautiful grandson, Lane!
My amazing and beautiful family!
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